16 Things I Wish I Knew at 16

Yet another rotation around the sun!

Birthdays are no longer something I look forward to because of the gifts or attention I receive, but because it allows me to reflect on where I’ve been, and where I’m headed. I may not be where I want to be in life just yet, but I know that the teenage girl I was 5 years ago would look up to the young woman I am today. If my 16 year old past self met my 21 year old present self, she would want some advice. There are a ton of things I wish I knew at 16. Here are 16 of them:

1.) Invest in good quality, well-fitting shoes. Because let’s face it, you’ve stopped growing.

2.) Eyebrows are EXTREMELY important! You spend so much time watching makeup tutorials on YouTube, why not make sure you have nice brows for your grad photos?

3.) Don’t stress out if you feel like you don’t fully belong in any one group. It’s okay to be a floater. Being able to get along with all sorts of people means that you’re flexible, an attribute that will come in handy when you find your passion for travelling at 17.

4.) Don’t listen to the “cool kids” who make fun of you for taking your studies seriously! They’re the same people who will peak in high school.

5.) … Speaking of high school, I’m going to be honest. You won’t even remember 99% of the kids you went to high school with once you’re in university. Have fun, create memories, but don’t be too invested into friendships since you and your peers will naturally grow apart.

6.) Love your body! Self loathing doesn’t do anything for you. Exercise, but make sure you’re engaged in activities you enjoy. You don’t have to bore yourself with counting reps in the weight room if you’d much rather take a dance class. Eat well, but treat yourself occasionally. A chocolate bar once in a while isn’t going to kill you. It’s all about balance.

7.) Read up on structural racism, sexism, Islamophobia, and other social justice issues that affect you and your community. You know, topics your teachers only briefly touch on in high school. The sooner you are aware of systems of oppression, the sooner you can work to dismantle them.

8.) Boys like girls who like themselves!!! You don’t have to change anything about yourself to impress boys. In fact, the older you get, the harder you work at weeding the annoying ones out! *eye roll*

9.) … Speaking of boys, why are you even dating anybody right now? You aren’t in love. Besides, the boys you will meet in post-secondary have so much more going for themselves, and even more so once they’ve graduated.

10.) If you’re going to sneak out of your house, make sure you plan your evening from start to finish! If you don’t have a plan for sneaking back into your room at 5 in the morning, you will get caught. (Not that getting caught will stop you from sneaking out again)

11.) Just because your parents want you to be an engineer, doctor, lawyer, whatever, doesn’t mean you have to be any of those, even if you’re 100% capable of being successful in those fields. You’re a creative soul, and this is your life to live. The last thing you want is to feel trapped in an uninspiring career path.

12.) You will still be obsessed with everything you got into at 13. You will still love building websites. You will still love experimenting with makeup and clothes. You will still love your favourite video games. Don’t be in such a rush to grow up – enjoy your childhood for a little bit longer while you don’t have a ton of responsibilities.

13.) You are an idea-generating machine! Don’t allow your lack of resources or the work ahead of you prevent you from starting those big projects. The time will pass anyway – you’re going to wish you had started years ago.

14.) Don’t do drugs. … But if you do, do them with people you trust. In a private home. And not the hard stuff.

15.) Being sloppy drunk is not cute and never will be!

16.) Take pictures. Lots of them. Then put your phone down and live in the moment, because you will never be as young as you are now.

What do you wish your future self told you 5 years ago?

Thanks for reading my thoughts and for making me feel special on my 21st birthday! Make sure to share this post with someone in your life you think would benefit from my advice!

Love always,

Lulu Meets World Professional Travel Beauty Fashion Blogger

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